Sunday, October 31, 2010
Sunday Service
Three other motivational speakers from this morning included Anne Blight and Craig Hammond from the Starfish Project, helping people to overcome their stutters. They showed a video of Craig's first day with them and how debilitating his stutter really was. Three years later, Craig stood before us and gave a perfectly eloquent speach, taking in deep, sharp breaths before each phrase to prevent the stammer. The progression was truly amazing.
The other woman was Lady Catherine Meyer who spoke to us about how Fate had affected her life. Her two sons were abducted from her by her ex-husband, and she was unable to see them for ten years. They are now reunited, but she has created a charity PACT for the awareness of parental abductions.
I was sad to leave. I think that one of the things (besides the people, of course) that made this weekend wonderful was that alongside the lovely English architecture, all of the trees were beautiful colors and gave the atmosphere a refreshing autumn feel.
Happy Halloween, by the way!
It's All Very British
Yesterday morning's conference speakers included middle school students who spoke about their Interact club at their school, the Canterbury Rotary Club who discussed the successful hospital project in Ghana that they recently accomplished along with four other Rotary clubs and various donators, Frances Allen who discussed the "Inner Wheel" of Rotary, and Peter Burkhill.
The last man, Peter Burkhill told an amazing story. He is a pilot for British Airlines and about three years ago, on a flight from China, both his engines died about a minute from the landing in England, but they did not send off any warning signals until thirty seconds before hand. He discussed his experience there, which involved a lot of quick thinking, but concluded with a successful crash landing that saved every life on board. He wrote a book that I am going to blindly promote here, based on the fact that this man was a wonderful speaker, the topic was fascinating, although dreadfully frightening, and that he is George Clooney's look-a-like. It is called "Thirty Seconds to Impact" and I would at least suggest to check it out of the library and skim it.
After Mr. Burkhill's presentation, a Rotary panel came and sat on the stage for what was called a debate, but which I would rather characterise as a pre-planned interactive questionnaire with the audience.
Once the session finished, I decided to explore the town of Eastbourne for an hour or two, so I walked along the boardwalk, which was beautifully adorned with twinkle lights and which served as the base for some beautiful and charming buildings that made me feel that I needed to be carrying a parasol. The water was a beautiful sea green. Not like the North Carolina coast that can be compared to the Rio Plata of Argentina where you have to guess the color: is it brown or orange or green? This water was truly a lovely shade of bluish green. Once I stepped off of the pier, I tried to walk along the water's edge, but the sand was not actually sand; it was pebbles, and rather large pebbles at that. So, I walked along on the sidewalk. After going along for a ways, I became distracted by a church tower in the distance, so I crossed over a few roads, took a few pictures of the church and began to head back to the conference. If you're wondering why the Rotary let me walk around the town without a chaperone or even a buddy, I'll just sum up the basic reasoning by writing that this is a town for retirees mainly. I do not thing that the crime rate is through the roof.
I arrived back at the theater just in time for Richard Stilgoe to present the Orpheus program that houses and habilitates disabled children. He was wonderfully charismatic and the program, which teaches the disabled how to live independently, appears to be very effective. At the end of his presentation, three of the Orpheus students came on to the stage and sang for us. They had wonderful voices, and at least half of the audience was moved to tears.
In the Friendship House, the dEBra foundation gave me a butterfly pen to add to my jacket and the Westgate and Birchington Inner Wheel Club gave me a free Dessert Cookbook! Yum!
Mrs. WIlton and I returned home, let the dog, Shawnsey, go for a walk, and then I tried a mince meat pie. I must reveal the truth: mince meat does not actually contain meat in it! In fact, it is a dessert, like a tart! It is delicious and the filling tastes rather like homemade apple butter with raisins and some other dried fruit in it. It tastes like fall and winter.
Around six thirty Liz and John dropped me off with their son, his wife, and their two children, Mimi and Ben. We joined in a procession, with most people carrying flaming torches (it rather reminded me of the introduction to Histoires et Reves d'Artois) leading up to the most humungous bonfire. After we watched the bonfire burn down, a brilliant fireworks display erupted behind us. When I returned home, Liz and John had not returned from the black tie Rotary banquet and ball to which I had not been invited (also which they later told me had mediocre food and a not-so-good band). So, I ate a typical English dinner of roast beef and Yorkshire pudding (more of a bread than a pudding) and thouroughly enjoyed it while watching Friends on the television.
The Reason for the Bonfire:
On November 5th, 1905, a man named Guy Fawkes attempted to hide several cases of gunpowder beneath Parliament. He was caught, tried for treason, and executed (hung, drawn, and quartered). Later, to commemorate the event and warn others against the serious crime of treason, the British hold bonfires over which they burn effigies of Guy Fawks.
The Room Mix-Up
I must say that an English Chinese meal is delicious. It was five courses all together. We began with fried seaweed, egg rolls, and a type of fried chicken for appetizers. Then we had a corn and crab meat soup followed by more appetizers. For this round of appetizers, one took a pancake (flat sugarless crepe), drizzled plum sauce on top, stuck in a handful of sliced cucumbers and/or onions, and stuffed the rest of it with Peking duck before rolling it up into a mess of delicious Chinese goodness. Next, we finally got around to the entrees (American entrees, mind you. In French, an entree is the same thing as an appetizer.) that included fried beef, chicken, tofu (which I discovered tastes a lot like eggs), rice with peas, corn, and ham, and an assortment of vegetables. Dessert was displayed marvelously with a carrot carved into a crane in the center of the dish, surrounded by fruit kebabs and fried apples.
Not only was the food superb, so was the company. I never felt left out for one moment of the evening. Madison is somewhat of a rare name in England, so I was called Meredith a few times, but I like that name, too, so it didn't bother me. I was also nicknamed, "the American cheerleader" because apparently I look like I would be the type of girl who cheerleads.
The man who sat next to me on my left was the Club President and the man who rescued in the hall when I had been wandering hopelessly lost. The man on my right used to race Ferrari's and other sports cars, and now owns a business (which he has recently downsized to thirteen employees and moved out of London) that makes and restores chandeliers for homes such as Buckingham Palace. We all talked and laughed, and for a much longer time than we were supposed to, for we were an hour late to "Rotary Last Night of the Proms."
What I saw of the Rotary Proms was absolutely magnificent. We arrived just as Kathryn Jenkin began to sing "I Could Have Danced All Night" from My Fair Lady. She wore the most beautiful purple evening gown and had an amazing voice. Of course, the theater was packed, so the only seats left were in the very front row or the back of the third level. We chose the back. The rest of the performance included Clifford Lister, an opera singer, the Sussex Symphony Orchestra, and Heathfield Choral Society. Part of me wishes that I could have seen more, but I did have such a great time with that Rotary club at our Chinese dinner. At the end of the performance, the orchestra played two patriotic English songs and all of the audience sang along and waved the British flag. Peter, the Rotary club of Sittingbourne Invicta President, admitted to me later that he thinks the Americans are still by far the most patriotic in his opinion. It was funny, though, because he tapped the man in front of him on the head (on purpose) with the tip of his flag, but he didn't respond at all. Two women turned to Peter and said almost at the same time, "No sense, no feeling." How clever of a saying is that!
My British Host Family
If people are judged by how they treat their dogs, then Liz and John Wilton must be two of the nicest people. After all, they are welcoming me into their home, with very little prior knowledge about me. After I admitted that I knew virtually nothing about this trip and staying with them, they revealed that they knew so little about me that they thought I was Hugues's daughter. Liz reminds me a little of my math teacher in the face. John, when talking to his dog Shawney, speaks in third person, referring to himself as Master and Shawney as just Dog, and does not use articles. It is quite amusing to listen to him talk to her.
They live in a charming house in the most adorable town right outside of Eastbourne called East Dean. We stopped off at their house briefly in between Rotary events, during which time Liz showed me my room and fed me tea with tomatoes, cucumbers, and a potato, all marvelously displayed. John is a true gentleman; he opens and closes all the doors for me, and will not let me lift a finger, even to carry a plate to the kitchen. He also, apparently, does not like to be called Sir and prefers just John.
Welcome to Sunny Eastbourne
Great Britian welcomed me with giant cliffs and gray skies on Friday afternoon. I have discovered now that the grey does not even phase me now. The cliffs were impressive and beautiful, and the ride from Dover to Eastbourne was filled with rolling, green English hills and pastures inundated with sheep and splattered with cows. We also passed through the town that invented the television.
Hugues, his wife Natalie, and I arrived in Eastbourne around noonish. After a delicious lunch (for Hugues and Natalie, fish and chips; for me, vegetarian lasagna), we headed over to a Rotary meeting. Let me preface this next part by writing that before that afternoon, all I knew about this trip was that I was coming to England and that I was being kindly hosted by a woman in a town somewhere between Brighton and Eastbourne. So, I walked into the Rotary meeting , embarassed, wearing jeans. Thankfully for me, someone had left our nametags at the hotel where Natalie and Hugues are staying, so I had time to change into suitable pants and my Rotary blazer when we went to fetch them.
This Rotary meeting, I soon discovered, was the conference meeting for District 1120. (It is pretty much the same thing that I went to in Wilmington for District 7680 last spring before I came to France, complete with the House of Friendship and everything.) The speakers at the Rotary meeting included two men who spoke about Prostate Cancer, an Ambassadorial Scholar from South Korea, a man who discussed Rotaract, Andy Garland a BBC Kent radio show host, and Cheryl Baker who used to be a member of the 80's band Bucks Fizz. Mrs. Baker, who spoke last, sang for us; it was beautiful, and she shared with us a story about one of the band members who had a stroke due to blood clots in his brain, introducing the charity Headfirst.
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Grow-Light
Instead, the guys decided to help me look for a grow-light. No, I am not growing any plants in my room; it's for me. It may sound stupid, especially for someone like me who is not depression-prone, but for someone (again, like me) who has come from pretty much non-stop sun and eighty degree weather to a cold, gray, and rainy environment, I'll do anything to prevent the winter blues, especially in the fall. Besides, I came to France to have fun and be happy! Note that I said this is a preventitive measure; I'm not actually feeling down-in-the-dumps and I hope to keep it that way.
So, we went into a giant Home Depot type store, but nobody there could help us, and we couldn't find it ourselves. For the time being, we gave up on the grow-light and decided to walk around Auchan, a Wal-Mart sort of store, and apparently the biggest Auchan in the world, or at least in France. There, I bought a cool fountain-type pen and sixty ink cartridges to go in it, shampoo, the type of pen that I had when I was five that clicks with four different colors (they're super popular here), colored pencils, and a dinosaur coloring book to occupy my periods of Permanence (when we can't even talk) at school.
We left Auchan and were walking around inside when Thomas said, "Hey, look! Want to go pet some puppies?" I think Michael predicted my reaction because he groaned and gave Thomas a "What were you thinking; we won't leave that store for a year" look. I was overjoyed, at least! I love puppies! After fifteen minutes or so, the guys ditched me and went outside, expecting, I'm sure, that I would follow them shortly after. I didn't. Instead, I went upstairs and looked at the fish. When they joined me a few minutes later, we saw the lizards and figured that a light for a lizard would probably suffice or work even better than one for plants. The man who was trying to sell it to us kept asking us for what type of plant we were using it, so he could get us the right one; consequently, we had a long period of awkardness trying to figure out how to explain that it wasn't for a plant. In the end, I think I bought the right product, a 75 W Basking Spot Lamp, because on the back it reads, "Stimulates natural behavior through UVA rays."
We drove back to Emily (Michael's host-sister)'s friends' house where we ate Babka and Pain-Sec, two Polish cakes that were delicious! The former tastes like pound cake and the latter like apricot pie.
The Social Network
After the movie we walked into a bookstore that surprisingly had a vast collection of English litterature. Then we bumped into another group of exchange girls who had been shopping and all went into a cafe to hang out and catch up.
Talking, I learned that some English man stranded on an island created the first sandwich, and that it's not called a "man purse," it's a "european shoulder bag."
Monday, October 25, 2010
You Say Potato, I Say Pomme de Terre
Saturday, October 23, 2010
C'etait la Guerre...???
I was sort of disappointed that he hadn't told me before hand because I told him that we totally should have had a French-off!
Are Ice Cream and Woolen Scarves Contradictions?
Next we took the metro one stop to get ice cream and then got on the metro again to go to Subway. Michael and I could only stay for nine minutes at the Subway stop because we had to get back to the train station. Our train left at ten minutes later than it should have, at 5h40, but we all survived the wait, don't worry. In the train station, I saw a man with a legit pig nose.
Hi Ho..It's Home From School We Go
In school I didn't have to take the quiz in French, I had a free period, we didn't do any work in Economy because Mme. Braun berated the class about work that I didn't have to do, we worked on a dialogue all Spanish class, and we learned about Snow White and the Seven Dwarves in History. Just kidding, we talked about the evolution of movies, which included the first Disney picture of Snow White. Then, we watched half of a movie that we will finish after break.
Last night, I went to a dinner with Christophe and Sabine (Heloise wanted to stay home) celebrating one of Sabine's collegues' retirement. It was in a restaurant that doubled as a discotheque. I think it was a theme night, too, because all of the music that they played was American disco music. The meal was another long one. We arrived at around 8h15, socialized a bit, and sat down at around 8h30. The food was good, but it was super rich. They served a ham and cheese crepe topped with an egg and more ham and mushrooms covered with cream and a chocolate banana crepe. I also learned that cider here is not apple cider. The main part of the meal didn't arrive until 10h45, and dessert didn't arrive until 1h00 AM. Needless to say, it was after 2h00 AM when we got home.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Don't Make Fun of Me!
I was made fun of twice today for being American.
The first was by a guy who I had never met before. Apparently, he talks quickly to begin with, but when he discovered that I was from the US, he ran together a bunch of gibberish in lightening speed. (I asked the girls who were with me later if he had actually said anything, and they told me he hadn't.) Then, he started speaking so slowly that I had to let him know that I wasn't stupid.
I didn't hear what the second boy said, I just know he said something that wasn't nice and wouldn't repeat it when I asked him what he had said.
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Bob L'Eponge
Made in...Where?
Yes, China, you are far far away. I'm on to you and your new secret ninja code-name!
Chinese Rotary
It's funny because I have often thought (even before last night) that the United States from a French point of view is comparable to China from an American point of view.
Monday, October 18, 2010
Presque Parfaites
"students are perfectable!"
I like this.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
No Strike for You!
(I'm totally being sarcastic here, by the way.)
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Friday, October 15, 2010
The Ants Go Marching One By One...
I woke up this morning with an upset stomach. :( Hoping it would pass, I went to school anyways. I was really excited because today we went to the town of Fourmies (a fourmi is an ant) on a field trip! The bus ride was two hours long to get there, and I actually fell asleep on the way. It wasn't awkward, though, because a lot of other people did, too.
In Fourmies the bus drove through the town as a man from the museum guided us and told us of the town's industrial history. We then toured the textile museum.
After lunch we got back on the bus and watched the first half of the movie "Around the World in 80 Days" while we drove to the next town. There, we had another tour of a smaller museum where we learned about Godin and his town. We were planning on staying longer than we did, but there were traffic jams or something of the sort, so we left early. We finished the movie on the bus ride back to school, but I fell asleep again, so I don't really know what happened.
I'm still not feeling very well, but we had yummy carrot soup for dinner, so I'm hoping that will help my stomach a bit.
Thursday, October 14, 2010
The Almost Course
I went to school for nothing. Everyone in my grade and the grade below me was supposed to run around two kilometers for some national once-a-year sports requirement. Since we were so numerous, we would have run at the soccer stadium in the center of town. However, like always, there was a strike going on.
When I got to school, all of the girls were herded like sheep into the gymnasium where we all changed into sweats. Once we had all gotten out of our school clothes, a teacher came in, told us that the run was cancelled, and made us put our clothes back on before we went back into the main school courtyard. Since no one had planned on the strike, everything from there was all mumbo-jumbo.
Normally, my class would have had English the first hour, so my homeroom teacher rounded us up in our normal classroom where we waited for the English teacher to arrive. While we were waiting, Mme. DeGroote had her three-year-old son with her, and he talked to us a little bit. Mme. DeGroote told him that we could all sing a song together and told him to ask us if we liked the same music that he liked. Of course, being three, he responded by asking us, "Do you like the same music that I like?" It was the cutest thing ever! In the end we discovered that he likes Black Eyed Peas and Lady Gaga, but we didn't have time to sing because Mme. Meilan our English teacher arrived then. For the rest of the class, we played hangman with English words.
The next hour we had Perm, but for some happy reason, we did not have to be silent. The final hour, we all went again into the gymnasium. Usually, if we don't have a class last hour, we can leave campus, but apparently the strike was too "dangerous" for us to leave. The sports coaches provided us with equipment, but only the boys really played any games.
At least the whole day wasn't a total waste because when I arrived home, I had a care package waiting for me from Dad! Thank you!
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Coucou!
I found the perfect quote to describe days like today:
"Your true traveler finds boredom rather agreeable than painful. It is the symbol of his liberty-his excessive freedom. He accepts his boredom, when it comes, not merely philosophically, but almost with pleasure."
~Aldous Huxley
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Who am I?
This is what my peers said about me (in French, of course):
- Super gentille
- Super sexy
- Intelligente
- Agreable
- Timide
- Un peu a l'ecoute
The New and Improved High-5
For the first one, you tell someone to give you a high-5. Then, when they're about to hit your hand, you ball your fingers up into a fist, except for your thumb, and they end up hitting the pinky end of your fist. You're then obliged to shout, "turkey!"
I'm pretty sure for the second one, both participants in the high-5 need to know what's happening. Otherwise, both will just end up looking like a major goober. For this one, both high-5ers begin, acting like a normal high-5. Then, as the hands are about to slap together, they both curl their fingers, and retract their hands in a wave-like motion. This one is called the jellyfish!!
Monday, October 11, 2010
Recovery
It Made My Life
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Techno Rave
After we ate, shoes were removed, and toes squished in mud as we began a guided tour around the land surrounding Mont Saint Michel. Apparently we walked for fourteen kilometers, but for some reason I did not think it felt that long, eventhough we walked from 1h30 to 5h00.
Friday, October 8, 2010
Sprinkled With Stories
We met up with other exchangers from our district at the Aquarium restaurant and took a double-decker bus (Amazing, I know!) from there. I sat in the back next to Julia from Brazil and near Daniel and Carlos from Mexico, Jacinta and Josh from Australia, Martina and Laura from Canada, Darpan and Kevin from India, and Chris and Michael from the US.
For the majority of the bus ride, Laura and I belted out random American songs that we knew and were listening to on her ipod.
Carlos and Josh were talking on Facebook about attracting French girls. Josh wrote to Carlos saying that he should say, "Come to Papa" to the girls. Carlos responded, "That's not funny. It doesn't make any sense. You just said, "eat your potato." I don't get it." (Come tu papa=eat your potato in Spanish) Nevertheless, Carlos eventually understood.
About two hours into the bus ride, we stopped and visited the cathedral in Amiens. It was huge! I think that the church in Vermelles is about as tall as its front door.
Back in the bus, we drove across the world's tallest bridge before driving through Honfleur. I think we were supposed to have a tour, but that didn't end up happening.
We at lunch at Flunch, a fast-food type restaurant in France with relatively healthy alternatives. I sat a table with Spanish speakers, so I'll be glad if I don't lose my Spanish completely.
Our next stop was at a beach in Normandy where we visited a D-Day museum and listened to a lady give a history speech about the area. Afterwords we watched a movie in 360 degrees. Yes, the movie litterally surrounded us in a circle. The pre-show announcement told us that we were free to get up and walk around the room for the full experience of the movie if we pleased. Of course, I pleased. I was the only loser to walk around for the entire movie. Others joined me for short periods of time, so I was never alone. I have a new adopted brother named Tom who is a ten year old French boy and walked around with me most of the time. We actually ended up hanging out together most of the afternoon when I wasn't hanging out with the Spanish-speakers. It was really good because he does not speak a word of English.
After the 360 movie, all of the exchange students stood in a circle and played a Canadian game where we sang:
Hey there, ride that pony
Ride around that big fat pony
Hey there, ride that pony
This is how we do it
Front Front Front Front Front, my baby
Back Back Back Back Back, my baby
Side Side Side Side Side, my baby
This is how we do it.
For the first part of it, ten or so people in the middle skipped in a circle. Then they crump in the direction of the song to the person nearest them on the outer ring of the circle. Then that person on the outer ring takes their place in the inner ring, and it starts all over again. It was the wierdest game I've ever played.
At dinner I sat in between Tom and Josh. I quickly discovered that the back of the placemat was a coloring page. (I had been talking about buying a Normandy coloring book earlier with Tom to occupy my hours of Perm at school.) Surprisingly and disappointingly, nobody in the room had crayons. I did find a red pen, and everyone at my table took turns drawing funny faces and acting like doofuses.
The exchange student phrase of the weekend is, "Bah, ouais."
How Do You Say Brownnoser in French?
I spent last night at M. Polveche's house with Yuki and Asaki from Japan and Michael. We had an exotic dinner originating from the Antilles. For the aperative, M. Polveche had made a sort of fried ball of cod mixed with chives. The main meal consisted of rice and a curry soup with large chunks of chicken and zuchini. For dessert Huges put on a wonderful show and made bananas flambĂ©es! It was all delicious! Michael says I’m a brown-noser.
After dinner we watched a movie about Asterix and Obelix, a French comic strip about two men from Gaul, one of whom fell into a vat of magic potion when he was a baby and now has incredible strength and the other who drinks the potion for the same strength. There were innumerous references to other movies, songs, history, and the most random topics. It was quite amusing, but at around 10h30 I decided to go to bed and watch the rest of the movie another day.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
My Life as an Extraterrestrial
Yesterday in Science, Somaya told the teacher that I didn't have to take the quiz that she was giving. Now, I also do not have to take the Math quiz next Tuesday either. The great thing about this situation is that I still do all of the classwork and homework, but I will not get as discouraged as I would with failing grades.
I know now that Mme. Chanteloube, the Math teacher, knows I am an exchange student because she made the comment the other day that it is too bad that there are no pink calculators sold in France. Happily, I think this means that I no longer have to go to the board and answer questions.
The old lady sitting next to me waiting for the bus this afternoon had a beard.
La Caserne des Pompiers
Tick Tock
www.youtube.com/watch?v=iP6XpLQM2Cs
Monday, October 4, 2010
ECJS
When I entered the classroom, the teacher made us wait to sit down, then told us to arrange ourselves into groups of six. I was automatically heading to be in a group with Marie and Yamina when another girl named Marie in my class asked me to be in her group. This group consisted of Marie, Romaine, Corentin, Camille, Sophie, and me. We didn't really do anything in our group but discuss a little bit; nevertheless, it was fun to be in a different group to get to know some of my other classmates better!
So ECJS stands for Education Civique Juridique Sociale (Civic, Legal, and Social Education). I was originally told that we would learn how to become good French citizens in the class, but that's not really what we're doing. Instead, we will have three points of focus in the class this year.
The first point, which we started today, is Sects. Apparently the French definition of sects is more like the American definition of cults. The next point is the rules clearly defined by the law and work of students and of teachers. The final point is the roles of parents and grandparents.
The group into which I was assimilated today is not necessarily my group the rest of the year. Mme. DeGroote told us that our groups would be chosen at random by her. I think she is literally going to pick names out of a hat. That will be interesting, but I love the anticipation for knowing who is in my group.
Oh, and by the way, I got a fourteen out of twenty on my quiz in Francais today!
Sunday, October 3, 2010
La Braderie de Lens
At around 4h00 Sabine, Heloise, Christophe, and I went to the Braderie of Lens. A braderie is pretty much like a giant flea market. Stands of clothes, shoes, food, and useless trinkets lined the streets. The traffic amongst the people was bumper to bumper. I think I saw more people today than I have the entire time I've been here. The prices for everything were great, but again, for some reason I could not bring myself to buy anything.
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Les Manifestations
Friday, October 1, 2010
Conspiracy! Dead or Alive?
Michael Jackson is idolized by almost everybody here. It's like he never died. In fact, most of the people who I have encountered honestly believe he is still living!
I have been asked at least five times by different people in different moments whether or not I believe Michael Jackson to be dead or not.
Why had I never heard of this back in the USA?